Jon Bon Jovi reveals how his 36-year marriage to childhood sweetheart Dorothea has stood the test of time

Jon Bon Jovi and his wife Dorothea have proven that true love can survive fame, temptation, and time. The couple, who met in high school in New Jersey, briefly separated early on but reunited when Jon realized she was the one. In 1989, while on tour, they eloped in Las Vegas—despite backlash from his manager, record label, and even his mother, who feared it might harm his career.

Now celebrating 36 years of marriage, Jon credits Dorothea as the “glue” that holds their family together. They’ve raised four children while maintaining a private, grounded life and avoiding the spotlight as much as possible. Dorothea once said, “We try hard just to give our kids a normal life.”

Despite his fame, Jon says the secret to their lasting relationship is mutual respect and having “grown up and grown together.” They not only support each other emotionally, but also run community service efforts like the Soul Kitchen restaurants and the JBJ Soul Foundation to help those in need. Their relationship is a powerful reminder that love, commitment, and shared values can endure—even in the spotlight.